Its the biggest challenge of your life. How to sustain fulfillment in a long term relationship. No one teaches this course, nor is there a roadmap. As I watch the flow of couples into and out of treatment, I observe many common threads that hold them together, or split them apart. Most prominent is this: Provisions. What fundamental notion is provided, from one partner to the other, genuinely and consistently, from the heart. It starts there, and it can end there. It